I’ve heard, hey, be patient when potty-training. They won’t be peeing in diapers when they go to college.

I’ve been to college. There were multiple instances of people peeing themselves.  Usually alcohol was involved.  I don’t feel relieved.

With my son, we optioned for a reward method with poops on the potty. His Pop Pop bought him a large bin of cars at a garage sale, and after every poop, my son got to pick a “poop car” from the “poop car bin”.  And we encouraged him to revel in his success and call them “poop cars”.  One, it incentivized him.  Two, no other kid at the playground wanted to play with poop cars so he never had to share.